Dating when you are not attached to anything in your life is extremely dangerous because you will feel drawn towards the most toxic relationship and you will develop codependency with the new partner.
#2: Focusing too much on being liked
You believe your ex was your soulmate.
I was a virgin, naïve, not grasping the true meaning of love. He looked at me with fire in his eyes and a passion so intense that I thought to myself, “This must be the love everyone is gushing about”. Naturally, I fell for him, as hard as anyone could fall.