Deciding when you should have sex with someone is not about them or keeping their interest.
Ever dated someone who you know is bad for you, yet you can’t seem to let go?
Watch out — You might be holding yourself back from having a happy life and a worthwhile relationship.
If you have an anxious attachment style, my friend, I have bad news for you.
My biggest takeaway from all this bullshit is that oxytocin is a real bitch. You can’t date like me.
People don’t love you for the emotional energy you put in the relationship; they love you for who you are.
You are a valuable person who brings a lot to the table. When you truly start to believe this about yourself, you’ll it easy to stay relaxed in the early stages of dating.
What you need is to understand is that life is not so black and white. Having a job, a degree, and whatever else isn’t the whole puzzle.
Deep in your heart, you know that he’s not right for you and the possibility of a real relationship isn’t there.
At that stage of life, the timing was just not right for us. We both didn’t know what we wanted in life. We were so young, so unsettled, so different. I was at the start of the adulthood race with endless possibilities ahead while he was dealing with the ghosts of the path he had already walked through.
If you’ve been seeing him for a few weeks and realize no date has happened on the weekend, only late evenings after work through to early mornings rushing out of his place, I have some bad news for you.
We matched on Tinder at 8 pm on a Friday night, yet he didn’t message me. So I messaged him. Hey. He replied after a few minutes. Hey. And our conversation started.
If you frequently struggle with the urge to text an ex while having too much to drink, you’re not alone. Here’s why you want to do it.