Don’t Waste Time Trying To Understand People Who Hurt You
Instead of wasting time decoding people who don’t have good intentions with you, you should focus on understanding yourself.
Instead of wasting time decoding people who don’t have good intentions with you, you should focus on understanding yourself.
Sit with yourself because there are times no one and nothing could help you but you.
Sometimes the only way out is through.
My biggest takeaway from all this bullshit is that oxytocin is a real bitch. You can’t date like me.
I’ve settled with the conclusion that things just simply did not work out for us. We were compatible in many ways, but maybe being lovers just wasn’t one of them.
As long as we’re trying our best, we should never feel like we’re useless or an inconvenience. Anyone that makes you feel that way is not worth the time of day.
Deep in your heart, you know that he’s not right for you and the possibility of a real relationship isn’t there.
Letting you go is so easy when I accept true love into my life.
It wasn’t easy but in retrospect, it was good for me. This event taught me many things about love and life which have shaped me into the person I’m proud of being today — stronger, wiser, calmer and more appreciative of what I have.
When someone decides you’re not the one for them, don’t argue with them. Don’t try to prove to them they’re wrong. Tell them you understand. Tell them you respect their decision.
At that stage of life, the timing was just not right for us. We both didn’t know what we wanted in life. We were so young, so unsettled, so different. I was at the start of the adulthood race with endless possibilities ahead while he was dealing with the ghosts of the path he had already walked through.
In another life, I’ll find you before your life takes shape and you’ll find me when I’m raw in the making. We’ll find each other again despite responsibilities and ties and difficult decisions.
Pain is good at making you suddenly conscious of your humanness. It’s like a knock on your head, waking up all your neurons and reminding you of your own mortality.
When a Cancer woman lets you in, she will shower you with warmth and love. She will see you and see no one else.
I’m not asking anything from you. I’m not going to bother you. I just need to ease the pain to keep on going. So, can I just be selfish for a moment and say the things I shouldn’t be saying…?
To the boys who wanted me but didn’t have me, did you really want me or the idea of being with someone like me? How could you want me when I never showed you me?
You deserve to be with someone else better than me, someone who makes you happy, someone who can warm you with her passionate kisses.
As human beings, I don’t believe we’re afraid to love. In fact, we thrive on love. We crave for love. We’re not afraid to fall in love wholly and deeply.