The Importance of Choosing a High-Value Partner in A Serious Relationship

I published my first book in 2019, and it was a defining moment in my life. Little did I know that a few months later, I would meet the love of my life. Before we even went on our first date, my now-husband had already purchased a physical copy of my book, which I later spotted on his bookshelf. This was one of the first indications that he was interested in getting to know me and my passions.

As we started dating, my husband was always eager to hear about my writing. He read my articles, offered encouragement, and was incredibly supportive of everything I did. He was proud of me and often bragged about me to others. He never interfered with my writing process, even when I wrote about past experiences. He always made me feel comfortable and like I could be myself and better.

The lockdown in the UK presented an opportunity for me to move in with my husband. He was a capable man, having bought a house in London in his twenties without any help from his family. Living with him is an experience that has shown me the full extent of his care and love. Whenever he has free time, I would wake up to the smell of dishes being washed and breakfast being made. When we traveled together, I never had to worry about anything, as he took care of everything. He was quick to research and order things I needed before I even realized I needed them.

But the best care he gives me is emotional and mental. He’s always attentive to my needs and makes an effort to understand me better every day. He could easily list my likes and dislikes and could tell when I’m upset or happy because he pays close attention to me. His mission is to make me laugh, and I’m the center of his world. He’s not only my life partner but also my best friend, with whom I could share anything. Our relationship is always full of laughter

Having my husband by my side gave me the confidence to quit my job and pursue my passions. Even now with a new corporate job, his support has allowed me to continue doing the things I love and start new projects, such as starting a podcast. He took it seriously and even helped me think of potential guests for the podcast, which I feel grateful for.

In the past few years, my personal and professional lives have flourished, and I attribute much of my success to my relationship with my husband. He makes every day a joy, which has given me the energy to do what I want.

For those seeking a serious relationship, my advice is to choose your life partner wisely.

A high-value partner is someone who has consistently shown over a prolonged period that they bring real value to your life and enhance your overall well-being. When evaluating a romantic relationship, it’s crucial to consider how it impacts you, rather than just focusing on who the partner is or what they possess. Maintaining a relationship with an incompatible partner can be draining and hold you back from finding the right person for you. So, if they don’t align with your values and aspirations, it’s time to let them go.

Keep in mind that just a few encounters with someone aren’t enough to determine if they are a high-value partner. You need to take time to observe and gather information about them to decide whether they’re right for you, instead of leaving it up to them. Think for yourself. Trust that you know yourself best and you can treat yourself well.

Every step you take should be intentional, and with time and effort, you’ll eventually reach your desired destination.