I was loveable, I just didn’t know how to love myself and choose the people who were capable of loving me too.
For love to last, it takes two, not one.
People with cognitive dissonance bargain with themselves and change their beliefs to make them consistent.
There’s nothing flattering about an ex coming back to you. It’s disrespectful.
Our issues and my past issues rolled into a ball too ugly and heavy that it took me months and months to crawl out of it.
Sometimes the only way out is through.
Please stop saying sorry for what happened. Please stop apologising for all the clumsy ways you handled pain. Please allow yourself that much.
I might be a wreck but I’m still smart. I know I shouldn’t have to rely on having you to feel good about myself.
Deep in your heart, you know that he’s not right for you and the possibility of a real relationship isn’t there.
Keep going because if you don’t, you will live a life full of what-ifs, of envy, a life of a coward that admits defeat at the first failure, of a dying man on his death bed looking back at his empty years wishing he had not given up on himself, his dream, his passion.